Month: October 2020

“WHY do we keep choosing to LOVE?” This is a question many of us ask ourselves sometimes when relationships become emoti…

We know that when it comes to arguments 10% of the conflict is due to our difference of opinion and 90% is due to a disr…

What screws us up most in life is the picture in our fantasy of how life was supposed to be and how it was supposed to t…

  Turning down the volume on the world at times is so necessary. God knows I personally need to do it more delibera…

THE HONESTY HAMMER is too often used to harm rather than heal. If being HONEST compromises our dignity we are using it d…

Ever looked at your EX and wondered .. “Was I drunk the entire relationship?” I have, and yes I was. Drunk and/or off my…

When we edit our truth for the approval of others we BETRAY ourselves. If we ignore the habit of self-BETRAYAL it eventu…

“All things are DIFFICULT before they are easy.” Thomas Fuller reminds us that patience and self-compassion are necessar…

Emotional DEPRIVATION is a very real issue many adults silently battle to overcome. DEPRIVATION as a heart wound was fir…

“Affliction comes to us, not to make us sad but sober; not to make us sorry but wise” … H.G. Wells puts sobri…