Belonging to yourself as a Woman

 

A few words Iโ€™ve collated using snippets from some wise elders like Roosevelt and Angelou for any weary female hearts ๐Ÿ’” in need of support in this big journey we all face as women.

In a nutshell … there comes a time where we either back ourselves or we dont … if we do choose the road less travelled and put our heart ๐Ÿ’“ before our ego ๐Ÿ›ก and become brave hearted women, we find the price is high, but rest assured, the reward ๐Ÿ•Š is great …

Itโ€™s been said many times before … itโ€™s not the critic that counts ๐ŸŽญ ; not the female who points out how the strong woman stumbles, or when as the doer of deeds she could have done them better …

The credit belongs to the woman who is actually committed to bettering herself๐Ÿ‘ , who loves loyally๐Ÿ’–, who apologises when sheโ€™s in the wrong, who owns her side of the street …

If she doesnโ€™t hide behind booze ๐Ÿฅ‚, drugs๐Ÿ’Š ๐Ÿšฌ ๐Ÿ’‰, food ๐Ÿซ๐Ÿฉ or spending ๐Ÿ’ธ ๐Ÿ› but faces herself and her fragility … if she strives valiantly to be and do her best not just sometimes, but as a daily commitment, as her way of life … she becomes a truly empowered Queen ๐Ÿ‘‘ … not Malificent๐ŸงŸโ€โ™€๏ธ kinda Queen , but more of a Khalisee ๐Ÿ‘ธ Mother of Dragons ๐Ÿฒ kinda woman!

Respect belongs to the woman that errs, who sometimes falls … and yes she comes up short, again and again; but she spends herself ๐Ÿ’ซ in a worthy cause;

She at best knows in the end, the triumph of high achievement ๐Ÿฅ‡, and at the worst, if she fails, at least she fails by daring greatly …

She quietly and confidently knows her place will never be with those cold timid females who only know how to emotionally emasculate males ๐Ÿ‘บ, become a doormat to them giving their power away, then complain about mistreatment, or avoid them all together.

Some females in their whole lifetime never attract a real King ๐Ÿคดbecause they behave this way, they place their ego ๐ŸŽญ or fears before their heart ๐Ÿ’–, unfortunately they miss knowing the glory of being loved and treated as a Queen ๐Ÿ‘ธ

As we back ourselves we must learn to bear the accusations of betrayal from the fearful female pack, but not betray our own soul …

May we all strive to be a strong hearted Queen ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ‘ธ, god knows I work at it, every day, one day at a time however …

If as women we choose to belong to ourselves, the price is high for at times we will be excluded by the females that need to belong to a pack and choose popularity above personal integrity …

But the reward is great as the women who choose to stand at our side as Queens ๐Ÿ‘ธ ๐Ÿ‘ธ will love us ๐Ÿ’– helping us up when we fall, and applauding us when we succeed๐Ÿ‘, they are sacred and rare women, they are just one of our rewards.

I am blessed to have just a few Queens and a divine King in my life, yes the price on my ego has been very high, but the rewards for my heart are truly a blessing ๐Ÿ•Š …

Those women that choose to become better ๐Ÿ’not bitter ๐Ÿ‹ as we age need to remember we will always be a work in progress … I still fall and stumble regularly so … if you like me need a hand ๐Ÿค to get back on your feet from time to time, I hope reading these words may be helpful ๐Ÿ™ today or sometime in the future …

Lots of love from my heart to yours ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–

Cynthia Morton

Managing Director

Cynthia Morton is a bestselling Author, Blogger, Speaker and Founder of the multi award winning Emotional Fitness Program.