Belonging to yourself as a Woman

 

A few words I’ve collated using snippets from some wise elders like Roosevelt and Angelou for any weary female hearts ? in need of support in this big journey we all face as women.

In a nutshell … there comes a time where we either back ourselves or we dont … if we do choose the road less travelled and put our heart ? before our ego ? and become brave hearted women, we find the price is high, but rest assured, the reward ? is great …

It’s been said many times before … it’s not the critic that counts ? ; not the female who points out how the strong woman stumbles, or when as the doer of deeds she could have done them better …

The credit belongs to the woman who is actually committed to bettering herself? , who loves loyally?, who apologises when she’s in the wrong, who owns her side of the street …

If she doesn’t hide behind booze ?, drugs? ? ?, food ?? or spending ? ? but faces herself and her fragility … if she strives valiantly to be and do her best not just sometimes, but as a daily commitment, as her way of life … she becomes a truly empowered Queen ? … not Malificent?‍♀️ kinda Queen , but more of a Khalisee ? Mother of Dragons ? kinda woman!

Respect belongs to the woman that errs, who sometimes falls … and yes she comes up short, again and again; but she spends herself ? in a worthy cause;

She at best knows in the end, the triumph of high achievement ?, and at the worst, if she fails, at least she fails by daring greatly …

She quietly and confidently knows her place will never be with those cold timid females who only know how to emotionally emasculate males ?, become a doormat to them giving their power away, then complain about mistreatment, or avoid them all together.

Some females in their whole lifetime never attract a real King ?because they behave this way, they place their ego ? or fears before their heart ?, unfortunately they miss knowing the glory of being loved and treated as a Queen ?

As we back ourselves we must learn to bear the accusations of betrayal from the fearful female pack, but not betray our own soul …

May we all strive to be a strong hearted Queen ??, god knows I work at it, every day, one day at a time however …

If as women we choose to belong to ourselves, the price is high for at times we will be excluded by the females that need to belong to a pack and choose popularity above personal integrity …

But the reward is great as the women who choose to stand at our side as Queens ? ? will love us ? helping us up when we fall, and applauding us when we succeed?, they are sacred and rare women, they are just one of our rewards.

I am blessed to have just a few Queens and a divine King in my life, yes the price on my ego has been very high, but the rewards for my heart are truly a blessing ? …

Those women that choose to become better ?not bitter ? as we age need to remember we will always be a work in progress … I still fall and stumble regularly so … if you like me need a hand ? to get back on your feet from time to time, I hope reading these words may be helpful ? today or sometime in the future …

Lots of love from my heart to yours ???

Cynthia Morton

Managing Director

Cynthia Morton is a bestselling Author, Blogger, Speaker and Founder of the multi award winning Emotional Fitness Program.